The concept of powerlessness is a double-edged sword. So why would we disagree with Alanon and powerlessness?
We not only believe that you can influence your drinker, we show you how that may be achieved through the Bottled-up program. So, if we are in favour of Alanon’s program, is this group just a kind of Alanon group? The answer to that is no! While we do like some of their program, the fellowship and support that they provide, we fundamentally disagree with the central tenet of powerlessness.
Indeed, we would like to stress that we have a lot of respect for the Alanon fellowship for the people that it has helped over the decades. Again, these are good survival strategies and we welcome them. They also suggest that you look after yourself and make a life that is separate and non-dependent on the drinker. In Alanon they suggest that you detach with love from your drinker. In our book, anything that removes the guilt and shame that people living with an alcoholic feel is a good thing. For many who join Alanon, this comes as a relief, as they are told – “we didn’t cause it, can’t cure it, and can’t control it”. One of the central pillars of Alanon is the belief that you are powerless over the drinker. Have a question about the information listed here?Įmail: Address: P.O.Many people who come to us feel hopeless about the their situation, often quoting Alanon and Powerlessness as a reason to stop trying to change their circumstances. Or, download the Meeting List as a reference for every meeting in our District. Map links are listed with each meeting on the website. Use the Menu to find out when and where meetings occur each day. Our primary purpose is to stay sober and help other alcoholics to achieve sobriety. is not allied with any sect, denomination, politics, organization, or institution does not wish to engage in any controversy, neither endorses nor opposes any causes. membership we are self-supporting through our own contributions. The only requirement for membership is a desire to stop drinking. Alcoholics Anonymous is a fellowship of men and women who share their experience, strength and hope with each other that they may solve their common problem and help others to recover from alcoholism.
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